Unconditional love
The David Bowie/Annie Lennox Queen song ‘Under Pressure’ symbolises the hand in glove relationship we so desperately need, who’s the hand and who’s the glove is just ego and does not matter. The same with Socialism/ Capitalism Left/Right .
IT DOESN’T MATTER WHO IS RIGHT IF THERE’S NO ONE LEFT
Gaining or regaining our awareness that we are a part of this, our one and only Earth and not apart from it, needs to be our number 1 priority ,then we will have a chance to rebalance things eg the imbalance which these wars are and perhaps have always been a symbol of.
The Lyrics of ‘Loves me like a Rock’ by Paul Simon indicate the importance of unconditional love from a mother for the first 6 years at least according to Jeromy Griffiths ‘Freedom the end of the human condition’ worth a read .
His most original idea is one that we are more like love bonding based Bonobo monkeys than competition based Chimpanzees, males of which aggressively compete for mates .(Both species are from the Congo and opposite sides of the river ,hows that for comparison)
He therefore makes the point that it is not our nature to be aggressive and violent but loving, if we get unconditional love from our mothers from birth to at least 6 years of age . Of course her basic needs must be met for her to be able to give this love.
Also, eventually with faith, we may venture out of our PLATO’S deep dark(safe) cave of denial about greater realities and be able to face our true selves in all our ugliness and beauty without judging either.
It must be the responsibility of the father / man /partner to ensure that she can can give this love ,because if her basic needs are not met then she cannot.